As a therapist specializing in relationship issues and sex I am often asked this question: How can I finally find the love in my life? And it comes from those who are disappointed, lost and from those who are just ready for love and relationships now…

We have to admit it is a lot of misunderstandings nowadays. In our parent’s time and grandparent’s time people knew more about what society expected. They matched up quickly based on that premise. The rules were clear and everybody knew them. In this generation things are quite different, there are many other options out there and the expectations for some are quite different…
 
Let’s start from the beginnings:  in today’s world if you want to find "Love" in your life you will have to make a bit more of an effort...
 
It’s possible , that you find love of your life in the laundry shop or in Indian restaurant or at the hairdresser, but  it is most unlikely…And I am not suggesting playing by numbers, going out 10 dates a week, so statistically you will  find love after 3 months, but…it is good o help Universe to make a work for you as well…

I will mention old Jewish joke here:”Joseph wanted to be a very rich man and he was praying every night to God to help him to win the lottery! But nothing happened…One night Joseph had a dream in which God (looking like a wise man) spoke to him:”Could you at least buy the lottery ticket please!!!”

How can you “broaden” your opportunities?
 
1) Sign up to a dating site :)
2) Tell your friends that you are open to being fixed up or ask them if they know of anyone interesting that might be someone you would like to meet.  If people don’t know, they can’t help or assist you.
 
3) Sign up for clubs matching with your interests: book clubs, cooking, climbing classes, salsa classes, and things that bring men and women together in a casual atmosphere.
 
Give yourself a chance!